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"Sometimes I'd like to ask God why He allows poverty, famine, and injustice in the world when He could do something about it...but I'm afraid God might ask me the same question."
-Anonymous
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Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Gettin' Crafty (And A Couple Of Great Recipes)

Grace's birthday is less than a week away and she is getting really excited. She has been excited for months. Since coming home, she has witnesses all three of her siblings celebrate their birthdays. She is SO ready for it to be her turn. She keeps asking "is today my birthday?" To help her understand when her special day will be, I made a little count down of sorts.
I used little paper sacks and stickers (thank you Target) and dug up my old scrap booking punches. It took less than fifteen minutes, and yet the smile on Grace's face today when she saw these on her dresser was priceless. I put a little gift in each bag and she is allowed to open one each day leading up to her birthday. They are filled with silly little things, but she is so happy with them. So far she has gotten a stretchy glow-in-the-dark ball and a tiny pot with daisy seeds (again, thank you Target dollar area).

My other little crafty project has been my new black board for the kids' bathroom. I know it seems strange to have a chalkboard in a bathroom, but as my new friend Jane pointed out to me, they are bound to read it - they are in there every day. I was also inspired by a fellow blogger (Jen) who painted her whole bathroom with chalkboard paint. So, I
headed to Hobby Lobby, got a frame that had an ugly picture and broken glass in it (thus marked 80% off), and I used black board paint to finish it off. I love how it turned out!

The first day, I told the kids that I would be writing them little messages on it. They thought it was fun (even though I told them they are not allowed to write on it -nice mom). Maybe some day I will let them write messages to each other, but who knows how positive those would be :)

This is what the board says right now. I thought it would be a good verse for all of us. It seems to be sinking in a little too. Last night at dinner I asked if anyone knew what the black board said. My eight year old was able to tell me the verse (for the most part)! I was excited because I hadn't really told them to memorize the verse or anything.
Hopefully I will keep up with writing nice notes and positive messages to the kids, although I could see myself getting frustrating with them and just writing "AIM" as a message to my boys (just keeping it real).


One of my other fun creative adventures involves food. I absolutely love the Beantown Baker blog. I have mentioned it before. She posted a recipe for Cookies N Cream Cupcakes and they looked so darn cute...
I've made them twice already. They are really good. The first time I followed her recipe and the second time I used a white cake mix and used her homemade butter cream frosting recipe (awesome). They turned out really well. Check it out if you have a sweet tooth like me.

I love how you put an Oreo cookie in the bottom of the cupcake liner before you fill it up with batter. It is a great surprise when you take a bite.

I also love Beantown Baker's recipe for Sweet and Spicy Snack Mix. It has just the right amount of sweet and spicy. It is super easy to make. I used a little bit more Cayenne pepper than it called for.

Today Grace was feeling crafty too. She got the Color Wonder Magic Light Brush set. The jury is still out on this one. It's alright, but I still prefer good old fashioned water color paints :) The brush does light up the clear colored paint and "magically" make the paint appear on the paper...I guess it is sort of neat- and NO messes of any sort (everything is clear except for what appears on the special paper).
Hope you have a great Tuesday!!!

Monday, February 28, 2011

The Dance Competitions Begin!!!! First Up, Chicago!

February marks the beginning of competitive dance season around here. We spent the weekend in the Chicago area watching Alyssa's dance troupe compete. We have many more competitions to look forward to this year. It was fun to kick off the "season" as a family of six. Grace really enjoyed watching the dancing. I lost track of how many times she asked if she could go on stage. She tells us that she is "ready" to go on the stage...unfortunately for her, she doesn't actually go "on stage" until her recital in May. Doesn't Alyssa look beautiful? She is such a great girl and dancer! She is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.
Before heading to the theatre to watch the competition, we made a stop at Cracker Barrel for lunch. Doug told the kids they could pick out a little something sweet for desert to eat in the car as we drove the last hour of our trip...this was what Bryce came up with...umm, nope.

How about a little Sugar Daddy? Umm, nope. Try again. Grace seems to be really lovin' on her Sprite, doesn't she?
After lunch, we had enough time for Grace to catch a tiny nap before we made it to the hotel.
Then it was time for the three youngest to swim while I got Alyssa all dolled up for her first number.


Don't they look great? This is their costume for a really cool "production number" called Be Italian. They did a great job!

Thank goodness for technology. Without ipods, and DS games, we would have been in a whole lot of trouble. The boys were good sports, but we have decided that the next few competitions will be great mother/daughter get-away weekends (no boys allowed) :)
Grace after watching about six hours of dance...

Great job dancing girls! We are so proud of you Alyssa!

Friday, February 25, 2011

Books

I really love a good book. I am reading so many good books right now...thought I would share a few. I found this new blog widget called "Shelfari" which allows me to feature some of the books I am reading or have read. It is funny to see the variety of books on my "shelf." You could probably learn a lot about me if you really analyzed them. Let's see...I have my current adult book club book, my mother/daughter book club book, my adoption group book, and so many books to keep me inspired to keep focusing on Africa and the needs of orphans. I also have books that I just want to read for fun. See if you can figure out which book I got as a gift for my last birthday...here's a hint-it is a autobiography written by someone who I saw "in concert" during my younger years ;)

Even though we have a Nook, my bedside table is always piled high with books I am plugging away at. I will be highlighting a few of these in coming posts. I really love to share a good book and get so exited when someone else reads something that I did and we can talk about it - this is one of the reasons my girlfriends are so important to me...my husband has NO idea how to discuss a good book-he just doesn't "get it."


I read the book It's Not Okay With Me a few months ago. It was so inspiring. It is about a very successful business executive who finds herself in Africa after her life changes as a result of 911. She writes about the truth of what it is like in Africa and questions how we can stand by and allow it to be this way.

I read the book after I came home from Africa, so it really resonated with me. She explains that when you go to Africa, "...it takes a long time to process what you have seen, or didn't see. And at the end of a trip I always tell people that they will have to accept that Africa is not "process-able." How can we as humans or worse yet, how can we as Christians sit for one moment and think that it is okay for a single child to die of hunger today? How?...Is it okay with YOU that 30,000 children will die TODAY in Africa alone because they have no food or no one to go get them food? How will you sleep TONIGHT knowing this? I beg you to be still and close your eyes, but open your mind to my question."

The book goes on to document what she has done to make a difference in the lives of children in Africa. She is remarkable and yet she is just an average person.
One of the most powerful quotes from the book brought me to tears because of it's truth...

" No one who has ever gone to Africa wants to forget. We all get on a plane to come home and we make commitments to ourselves, our family, and even our God to go back- to do something for the beautiful people who welcomed us into their lives without hesitation or expectation. But we all get caught in the distractions of our "real lives." We so want to help the people who hold our hearts, but their faces start to fade away as they are replaced with the faces of the people in our offices. The sight of their mud huts disappears as we frantically try to finish off the renovation on our own house or wash the dishes after a great dinner party. We thought the smiles on the little children could never be forgotten, but they too start to gray as we pick up our kids from piano lessons and drop them off at soccer. Before we even know it, we too are saying it's okay that they are hungry and thirsty and have no clothes or parents or education or safe home. And before you know it, it will all fade to black."

Powerful. Truthful. Motivating ...

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Wow...Her Hair Really HAS Grown...

What do you think? It's really growing, huh?
Actually, we have a LOT of fun with costumes, wigs, and dress up clothes around here. We love Halloween and happen to have a lot of wigs and costumes laying around.

Grace's hair is really growing though. It started out so easy (and short) that I thought I had it all figured out. Now, I am a bit more stumped. Now, I understand why girls wear braids and moms prefer them. I think we are due to get Grace's hair braided again- this time she has requested "no beads". I think the beads bothered her while she slept.
If only my blog friend Gayla could pay us a visit and whip some yarn braids into Grace's hair ;)

Have a great Wednesday!

Monday, February 21, 2011

Mourning The Loss Of My Computer

OK...My daughter assures me that I have plenty of "real friends," but I feel so sad today...my computer crashed this weekend and I am without my laptop. I have soooo many blogs saved to my "favorites" and I don't know where to find them!
The biggest problem is that I may have lost pictures, videos and documents that I really want. I have an portable external hard drive that I use to back up stuff (occasionally) and I can't remember the last time I used it...Ugh!
Does anyone know anything about how to recover lost data from a bum computer? Tomorrow I take my baby - I mean computer, to the doctor - I mean computer repair guy. For $50 he promises to "diagnose" the problem. I am hoping that the hard drive is alright, because that way he assures me for mere $125 he will help me recover my precious pics and documents.
I need my computer back soon because sitting at "the kids" clunky, old desk top computer is lame. These are the only pictures I found in the "pictures file."

(I know for a fact that my son has never even had a Monster drink)



(My son's dream - to be like "Mike")


(I have no idea why this has been saved)
Since my thirteen year old daughter (and computer advisor) would prefer that I not glom on to her laptop, I better get mine working soon...
My email is still working, but I have no "contacts" right now. Feel free to shoot me an email and let me know if you have any "techy" advice for me!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

I (heart) Jake Ryan...and other stuff...


Does anyone recognize this picture? I have fond memories of this...keep reading, more on this later in this post :)We had a great Valentine's Day. Once again, Grace loved all the special little things that came her way. Grace received the cutest valentine that I have ever seen. Her BFF Kemily brought her a necklace that was made out of ribbon and gumballs! It is so darn cool. Grace wants to eat it though and I think it is too cute to eat!



You can find the directions to make these cute necklaces HERE. They would be great party favors for a little girl's birthday party. Grace has been eating her necklace...it was HER valentine after all.

In addition to working on our taxes (notice the piles all over my dining room table?-has anyone else been waiting for the IRS form 8839 - tax credit- to be available...I think it was just added a couple of days ago) I decided to try some box twists on Grace's hair. We will NOT be doing this again anytime soon...she cried, I complained, and it took longer than it probably should have. I think it looked pretty good (for my first try) and I was quite proud of myself. Well...Grace had the twists in for about 30 minutes and cried to take them out because they hurt (perhaps I did them a little too tight?). We compromised and I took out the row by her neck...

Then we compromised some more and I took out the clips. Apparently, the clips get in the way of her creativity.

Yes, she is as smart as she looks.

Oh, wait...Grace is pouting about something...there she goes with her head down ;)

And here she is today feeling much better...and I never thought I liked cats...
Alright...back to that first picture I posted. Today was 80's day at my daughter's school. She didn't think she had anything to wear. Mom to the rescue! I whipped out the old "crimping iron" (yes we had a crimping iron laying around) and did her hair. Then, it was time for the best part...I pulled out a favorite shirt of mine from the 80's (not really vintage 80's-more like a gag gift from a few years ago). Don't you love it? In the 80's, I was fond of Jake Ryan and loved the movie Sixteen Candles. She said the only person who really "got" the shirt at her school was her history teacher (I knew there were other Jake Ryan fans out there!).
SO HOW ABOUT SOME FUN? THE FIRST PERSON WHO LEAVES ME A COMMENT ABOUT WHY YOU (ALSO) LOVED JAKE RYAN (OR AT LEAST LIKED THE MOVIE) WILL WIN A FREE AFRICA KEY CHAIN
(I promise, it's cute).

Monday, February 14, 2011

True Love


Happy Valentine's Day! LOVE...we've been having fun explaining Valentine's Day to Grace. We've talked about how Valentine's Day is for expressing love and friendship to others. She has enjoyed all of the sharing (giving treats and cute valentines to friends) and lots of sugar eating (and it is only 11:00 in the morning!).
Another part of Valentine's Day for me is thinking about how lucky I am to have such a great family- lots of love...today I also find myself reflecting on how many people have come to love Grace this year...but, we are not the only ones. Grace has an incredibly loving family and community in Ethiopia that cared for her and loved her so much! I have said it before,
adoption = love. So...when I read a fellow adoptive mom's blog this morning, I had to share...

If you are looking for a beautiful story of love to read about on this Valentine's Day, you MUST visit Team Alexander's blog and read the touching story of two mothers love for their amazing little boy. Little Abe has been inspiring our family since we first saw his "gotcha day" video two years ago. Abe was at KVI (the same orphanage that Grace was at) and our family watched as the Alexander family met him for the very first time. I was crying then, and I was crying this morning as I read Emily's post and watched the beautiful video that she was generous enough to share on her blog. Her post reminds all of us that adoption is truly about LOVE in it's purest form. Another inspiring organization that I have been following for a few years, is Ethiopia Reads. Ethiopia Reads does wonderful work providing books to kids in Ethiopia. Thanks to many of you who purchased Valentine's necklaces, I was able to give a Valentine's Day gift to Ethiopia Reads... $325 raised to provide books! Thank you so much for supporting this organization!
Hope you have a wonderful Valentine's Day filled with love, hugs, and joy!